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Interesting thread. Some of my friends and coworkers might call me a "hardcore Christian" because I go to church religiously (pun!) and am involved in a lot of church and family social activities. I'm very active in my church. I prefer these activities to bar crawling and partying where a lot of the people drink and do drugs. I'm just not in to that kind of lifestyle. That does NOT mean that I don't like sex. I can get awfully hot and horny. Some of that is just lonliness-but some is nothing but sexual lust. I was a great match with my ex-husband, that way, but unfortunately that was about our only area of commonality.
As far as what constitutes sex, I think that anything that brings on a climax is sex, so, yes, handjobs are sex, blowjobs are sex, vaginal intercourse is sex, and masturbation is just sex gone solo. I even like phone sex as a part of masturbation. Is it sin? I don't know. I don't claim to be without sin.
From this woman's point of view though, intercourse is closer, more intimate emotionally and I will NEVER have intercourse with any man unless I am pretty sure that it is more than a brief fling or one niter. On the other hand (pun!) I just love the feel of a hard-on in my hands adn especially like to watch it come! But no, no, no, not in my face like the porn movies.
I'll turn 28 years old next week When I go to church this Sunday I am going to sit in the front row and wear something low cut that shows off my own ample rack to this new guy singing in the choir. I've caught him looking at my chest a couple of times, so I'm gonna turn up the heat a little bit. Who knows, I may end up with something HOT in my hands. And we might have some other things in common too. I already know that church is important to him and he loves to sing!
Lindy
(my very first post!!!!!)
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