Long term relationships are difficult, but if you're interested in discovering if the relationship is worth it, a LTR will do it. We had a LTR before the days of the internet and cheap long distance telephone rates. She was in the Netherlands, and I was in Texas. We (*gasp*) wrote letters. The physical part of the relationship had to be put aside. We really, intimately, got to know one another. We wrote about everything. We knew each other's innermost thoughts, dreams, and desires. As I said previously, three years before we got married, we only saw each other three times. On the third time, we got married. That was 16 years ago.
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