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Originally Posted by KinkyKiwi
wow impressive (aimed at forehead, clark, red lemon, gar and scrub) i'm a little suprised at just how many more people were in comitted relationships here then single (by the poll). i have to ask of teh people who have been together over 10 years - do you feel your relationships have been so sucessful because you share a common intrest? and for the rest of you long term and happys..how many of you both spend time on the TFP(aka la petite moi and nwlinkvxd? i know having a place to show my interests and thoughts and knowing that biznatch will be checking out what i'm saying has helped me feel more secure and less shy with him. also since this site is obviously very open toward sex i wonder if the people on here are diffent then teh general populace ...at least in terms of being aware of their sexuality maybe aiding in keeping a sex life fresh after years?
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KK, it's not necessarily that we share common interests, but we have a common outlook on life. We answer the fundamental questions of life in the same way. We believe in the same things. Our list of the 10 most important things in life, so to speak, are about the same. As for our interests, they aren't the same for the most part. She exercises regularly, and I'm a couch potato. I love computers and the internet (especially TFP
), and she hardly knows how to email. I'm into porn, she's not. She likes to cook, I like to eat. We both share a passion for our children, travel, fine dining, good beer, tasty wine, and gardening. After 16 years of marriage, our sex life is better than ever. I think people in this forum are more sexual than the general populous. I am a more sexual person than my wife, and she's not a member of TFP. I love her more than ever. She has become more sexually oriented as the years have passed, mostly because of being "exposed" to me (no pun intended). I hope this answers your questions.