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Originally Posted by KinkyKiwi
wow impressive (aimed at forehead, clark, red lemon, gar and scrub) i'm a little suprised at just how many more people were in comitted relationships here then single (by the poll). i have to ask of teh people who have been together over 10 years - do you feel your relationships have been so sucessful because you share a common intrest? and for the rest of you long term and happys..how many of you both spend time on the TFP(aka la petite moi and nwlinkvxd? i know having a place to show my interests and thoughts and knowing that biznatch will be checking out what i'm saying has helped me feel more secure and less shy with him. also since this site is obviously very open toward sex i wonder if the people on here are diffent then teh general populace ...at least in terms of being aware of their sexuality maybe aiding in keeping a sex life fresh after years?
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I would think that the people here, me included, have a natural tendency to fully understand sex, from how to do things better so it drives our partners crazy, to how it affects people. This is the most respecting, level-headed group of people I've had the opportunity to acquaint myself with in many years.
I find TFP allows me to bounce ideas, thoughts and feelings about things that I may not be prepared to share with my wife. I don't think she's ready for me to share with her on some subjects too, so TFP is a real outlet for me to talk frankly about what role sex plays in my life and how it reflects on my relationship with my wife. We've been married for almost 7, but known each other for nearly 9.
We had challenges in the first few years of our marriage too, as we were learning how each other operated and what each of us could be flexible on. We're in the groove now, I'd say. We even had sex BEFORE work the other day. I think that's the first time that has EVER happened. Sex at 6:30am on a Monday morning. What a way to start the week! And we had sex that night. This isn't typical as we're both worn from work and 3 kids, but I certainly welcomed it.
I know I've used advice here to keep my sexuality fresh and exciting for my relationship.