spanking gets the job done. period. i was spanked til age 12 and feel im all the btter for it.. we had a whole routine.. there usually wasnt supprise things i could do to get the corpral punishment . i mean generally i knwe if i was somthing that warented it.. if the time came i went to the " check out counter" and paid my dues.. it was rarely even close to abuse.. and only ever went near the line when i smarted off during or said it didnt hurt or basiclly somthing aigain i knew not to do... i now have 2 kids both to young to understand the reasoning but both old enuf to know right and wrong... a swat or 2 on the butt is a verry efective way to say whoa thats not right or dont do that again..
i think the hardest thing is not to be mad durring...
i try to " cool off" and then do it.. but not wait to long so the " crime" is still fresh in evreyones mind.. dont want to punish and have the kids forget why.
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