I had this situation before and it turned out to me that its just I had sexual memories from this person and they kept rushing back whenever I was near her. I couldn't stand her as a person a lot of the time but I kept wanting to be with her physically. I kept trying to ignore it and go on without thinking about it. I got lucky though and she ended up proving to me she wasn't worth my time through several judgements that made me realize she was just a really bad person and I shouldn't be dealing with her.
My suggestion is if you both just need someone for the physicality of it, do it with no ties and no worries. Don't try to make a relationship out of sex.
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