I wouldn't suggest calling her, catching up, etc. She's probably moved on and if she says yes to a coffee, you're going to get a double whammy: your feelings for her will all come flooding back, AND you're going to hate to hear about her new partner, the success she's had in her career, how happy she is these days, how things are going well, etc.
If she wanted you guys to get back together she'd have called you by now. I'd say your feelings coming back now are just a temporary thing, because you've realized it's been a whole year and it's fair enough that your mind drifts to thoughts of her.
I say just give it a little time, don't let your mind linger on her, and reserve those feelings for somebody else. Get back out there... the quickest way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
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