Good for you, CityofAngels! Some women think they rule us with their sexuality and its good to knock'em down from that pedestal when they pull crap like that. Sure, girls have begged me for sex as well. I've never had that "I've got to have it now or I'm Gonna DIE!" urgent powerful need for sex and I think that percieved indifference has turned some women on. Go figure. Its not that I don't like sex, I do and am told I'm quite proficient but if I don't get any for a while its no big deal. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood or there is a moral or ethical issue with the particular situation. The women I've turned down for sex are always amazed and sometimes hurt (I feel bad about those) that their advances are rejected. I've never begged a woman for sex and when they've begged me I've been a bit mystified. No means no, right? If I ask a woman for sex and she says no I'm supposed to be cool and alright about it and just "enjoy the chase". I've had woman I've turned down get really mad, I've been asked if I was gay, and I had a couple of girls start crying because they thought I found them unnattractive. One girl, after I reapeatedly and politely said no left the room, came back nude and started rubbing herself all over me! If a man did that to a woman he'd be arrested. I mean hey, there are worse things than a naked woman cozying up to you but I REALLY didn't want sex at that time. The begging for sex sort of dirty talk foreplay sub/dom thing can be hot but when the "begging" becomes pressure its just not good at all.
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