I lost my virginity 12 years ago and I still finish faster when I watching porn than when I have sex. If you're 18, you've practiced the best ways to get yourself off for probably 7 years. You'll learn to relax with a girl/woman.
The advice about the Klegel excersises is also excellent. Bring yourself up to that last moment and then learn to stop. Its like practicing playing a sport or instrument, when you're with your girl and you hit that near climax moment your muscle memory will kick in and you'll stop yourself.
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