I wonder if this would help - it's a long shot but you never know.
A california King is equivalent to two extra long twin mattresses. When I was an RA, I would put two mattresses together, and put pillows in the little gap to hold the mattresses together. They have actual space fillers at Linen n things and other places, and that might give you a chance to be completely on your own mattress when you're on your side of the bed, but still keep the closness your wife wants for the night.
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