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Originally Posted by Grondar
I am not religious, but I do want to hold off on sex until I get invovled in a serious, long-term relationship.
I think sex is a special thing, and I do want to save it for the right person.. As corney as that may sound.
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agreed, i didnt wait till marrage but i did wait till i was sure that i truly loved the man i was with and was sure he loved me back. i also waited untill i was sure that it was about far more then sex. i dont think sex has to just be some like quick pleasure fix, it can feel extremly good but i doubt it would feel as good if i didt love and trust the person totally. theres something about sex that makes you feel so vounerable .. if your having sex just for sex and with someoe you dont know and trust totally then you have to sort or put up emotional barriers...personally half of what i love about sex is feeling totally connected with the person..it was really special and meant something...
if you love someone and just love being around them then why is sex so important? and what about oral sex? i mean does that count?