Depends is my take.
Personally if it was a girl that was marriage material and she wanted to wait I'd wait. I think the kind of love that is needed to make a marriage REALLY work would be one that would have to be tested without sex in the mix. I know a lot of guys who got suckered into a marriage mainly because of the sex. They were stupid and let the booty blind them and now they are paying for it.
I know a couple of couples that according to them they waited(not sure if I really believe that in one of the cases) and they are probably the happiest couples I know personally.
Now I say it depends because frankly "dating" to me is just a long complicated route to getting sex. Most of the girls I've dated simply are not the kinds of girls I would marry(now before anybody gets up in arms about this it isn't because they put out it's because the kind of woman I would marry personality wise is significantly different from the kind of woman I have persued). Now if she was "marrying" material and she said let's wait...well I'd wait. I believe if you find somebody that you truly consider to be marrying material you should learn to start respecting their wishes and sex considering it is just an "activity" is worth putting aside briefly if this person really potentially could be your life mate...in my own humble opinion.
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