I would imagine a sitdown with the parents might be a reasonable thing to do later in the relationship, but do you really think it would be a good idea to do it right away? I don't get a good vibe from thinking about telling parents that a 19 year old is going to go out with their 16 year old daughter.
I feel like i'm taking the easy way out, but I might just stay in contact with her until she turns 17 (a few months) then start something. I hope nothing changes in the meantime. Actually I gotta ask would this be fair to her, would I be stringing her along? I mean, how important would this be to a 16 year old girl- I don't want to make her life miserable because I basically want to put the relationship on hold until she gets older. That'd just be selfish and cruel.
grrr. I'll give this till the end of the weekend then i'm making a decision.
Edit: just realized I make the world's boringest subject lines. I wonder how many people would have responded if I put "I want to fuck a 16 year old" in the subject line.
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