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Originally Posted by timalkin
I appreciate all of the replys. I just don't see how I could ever trust someone enough to marry them. I guess that's what a prenup is for, right?
It shouldn't be too hard to stay away from girls as it is. It's not like I've got girls beating down my door.  |
as many people have noted, it's not something you can "see." It will just happen. I say if you are happy alone then that's great, but if it's a matter of feeling that you will not be able to ever trust anyone in your life again that's a different story. The stereotypical quote goes " trust isn't free, it's something earned." Basically if you meet a nice girl, you don't HAVE to give her everything right away. just take things easy and protect yourself a bit. Eventually though you will/should find that you will begin to trust her and from there you will rebuild the trust again. Like i said you don't have to see it, just make sure you don't close your eyes to it and block out every girl that comes along.