well, i would probably be pissed off at first. but, you've got to give her credit though... at least she told you what happened. with sketchy circumstances (she was drunk, she told the guy she had a boyfriend etc.) she probably could've rationalized it away pretty easily but decided to give you the heads up anyway. unless you get the feeling she was telling you just to make you angry or jealous... i think you've got to give her the benefit of the doubt for being so honest about something she could've easily gotten away with.
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