Sleepin with your SO a problem?
I love my wife dearly. We just got married after living together for a year. I love making love to my wife and I enjoy holding her and cuddling with her. However....trying to sleep in the same bed with her is driving me crazy. The woman is an unconcious gymnast. Almost every night while sleeping she tosses and turns. At times she actually lifts up off the bed and sort of forcefully crashes back down on it bouncing me all around. I'll almost be asleep, just about to drift off when WHAM, TURN - TUMBLE-KICK! I"m bounced around and jerked back to wide awake land. I haven't slept for more than two hours in a row in a year now. I thought I'd get used to it but I haven't. I'm admittedly a light sleeper but this amount of rolling around would IMO wake anyone. I am really of the opinion that there is "sleeping together" ie: making whoopee and "SLEEPING" which only involves being comfy and getting shut eye. I proposed separate beds to my wife and got a definate no, hell no from her. She seemed a bit hurt that I would suggest it but I GOTTA get some sleep! Anyone else run into this problem? Any suggestions? I've thought of getting one of those Temper-Pedic foam mattresses but they're quite expensive so thats at least a year away. Anybody sleep on one of those? We have queen size bed so maybe a king would help but I don't know, shes quite mobile. Any and all thoughts appreciated.
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