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my g/f of 2 years recently broke up with me....she said "i just dont love you anymore"...just like that
just know that, there are many many people out there that have similar experiences, feel your pain and sympathize with you.
its been a very hard month for me, but, i just keep on telling myself that everyone has shit to deal with, and that i am strong willed and will not let this break me. i know that when the time comes, the right person will be there for me. but for now, hell im 21, im gonna go out and have some fun...how old are you?....sounds like youre about the same age.
i suggest you do the same.
things that have helped me the most are talking to other people about it...anyone...my sister, parents, friends ect. other things that have helped are to find other things that you like to do to fill all that time that you used to spend with her. i go run, lift, bike, climb, paint, study, read, drive....ect....if you spend all of your time at home wallowing in everything then yes it is going to suck.
and believe me i know its so hard, im still strugglin through the same shit....but one of the defining characteristics of humans is dealing with tough situations in a productive manner. yes, i said productive. ive seen this same thing happen to some of my friends, and instead of being productive, they would party all the time, goto strip clubs ect. now they are alcoholics and their life is a complete disaster. dont put yourself through that, you already have enough to deal with.
good luck
tom
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