Congratulations!!
I just did almost the exact same thing on Monday. My ex came over to my place to hang out and see the new furniture I bought. I knew I shouldn't sleep with her but I thought I would. I held back and didn't do anything. No kissing, no saying anything, no arms around her etc. I think it is definitely the healthy thing to do, even though it is incredibly hard. In the long run it definitely feels like a step in the right direction and I think it is the correct way to go about moving on. Falling back onto the old path even for a short time just leads to a downward spiral of old feelings.
Congrats again, I really hope things are looking up for you in moving on. It is extremely hard, I know...
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Lionel Hutz
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