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Being married and monogamous, my philosophy on the attractiveness of the female body is as follows.
Breasts change, when we got married she was an A cup. After 3 kids I think she's a C.
Butt: There was hardly anything back there when we got married. After three kids, there's something to hold on to.
Legs: I don't have to carry her everywhere, which is nice. It's great when they're wrapped around me, whatever they happen to look like this year/month/day.
The thing for me is that it's not so much what I'm seeing but, "Can I touch it?"
I like being Manogamous because it's less complicated. I like being married because it's secure. I love my wife whatever she looks like. She will always be the most beautiful woman in the world to me, not because she's skinny or big breasted or petite or blonde or brunette or athletic or whatever. She's beautiful to me because I love her, and that feeling grows stronger every day. Does this mean that I don't look at other women? I don't think it's wrong to look and think, "She's attractive..." I'm committed to my wife so whether another woman is attractive or not is mostly irrelevant. That having been stated, I typically find myself saying, "She's attractive" about smaller chested women with blonde or brown hair. Dark hair with blue eyes is a combination I find rather intriguing. Natural blondes with brown eyes are attractive too. I find a nice round rear on a woman to be attractive, not too big but not flat. With my wife, I like having something to hold on to back there.
Lastly, a quote.
"Charm is deceptive, and beauty evaporates."
Even the most beautiful woman grows old and wrinkly. Someday, even Cher will have wrinkles... It's nice to great to look at beautiful women. I like laughing with a beautiful woman, or better yet, holding a real conversation with a beautiful woman.
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