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I disagree, there's nothing wrong with cheating. It's a natural response to the ridiculous relationship rules imposed on people.
My advice would be to pre-empt the issue. Explain that it's understandable that people want variety, but you're also looking for someone to be with long term. SO that if she does go with others to a) be sure to always use protection, b) always be back to you at the end of the day and c) to never let you know (or always let you know if you're into that kind of thing).
Just try to enjoy things. Don't get into the relationship looking to smother or control her and hopefully she'll return the favor.
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You know something, I don't think the sun even... exists... in this place. 'Cause I've been up for hours, and hours, and hours, and the night never ends here.
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