Originally Posted by doncalypso

You're having a hard time conceiving because you're both trying too hard.... The stress you're both going through must be having some negative effects on your sperm and her eggs (or something).

You know how you try so hard not to get pregnant and it ends up happening (condom pops, pills fail, etc)?... well, it works in reverse, and when you're anxious to conceive it becomes harder to do.