So at this moment when their relationship obviously isn't at it's strongest he should risk blowing it all up? Sorry I don't see it.
I would like to know how he feels his wife would react to this. Does he think she wouldn't be surprised...does he think she would be able to get over it and forgive him...does he think she would flip out and his marriage would end.
If omiting this will keep his marriage alive at least for now so he can possibly tell her later then I think he should keep his mouth shut. But if they are going to lay it all out then yeah I guess so but if this is just a "Honey I know things have been rough around here so I cheated on you." I think we will be seeing a "Well getting divorced." thread in a not too distanct future.
Oh well guess this should be a lesson to people not to cheat...see the kind of situations you get yourself into as a result. Damned if you do damned if you don't.
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