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breaking up showed you were at points in your lives where the relationship wasn't working anymore. getting back together this soon will virtually guarantee you building up to and repeating the same conclusion you came to a month ago. notice i'm not saying you're not the right people for each other.... there's a chance that you are and there's a chance that you could get back together and find that out. but right now you need to forget all about that, start pouring all the energy and time you were pouring into yourself, and like most people on here said talk to her in a few or even a few more months.... you both need to be on new chapters in your life with new things to share for getting back togethter to have a chance of working.
i had a friend who used a metaphor of a garden when advising me. the garden is your emotional health/soul/psyche and when you meet someone they do some amazing things to your garden that you would have never thought or discovered to do yourself. but when a relationship dissolves, it can mean that you've both been spending too much time in the other's garden. there are certain things that only you can water or till or weed or fertilize yourself... only you know how. so putting on your oshkosh overalls and getting in there and using that green thumb of yours on yourself will build you up for your next great relationship. who cares if its with this girl or some other great girl.... it'll be all good either way.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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