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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
Im curious....for all you people who say not to tell her...whats he supposed to do, say they go to counseling and it comes UP? If she asks him if he's had an affair are you advocating the continuation of the lie?
Nothing good comes out of hiding anything.....people find things out...and as a female I'd MUCH rather my guy was honest rather than to have an out of the blue phone call etc telling me what happened.
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Maybe this is a male/female difference thing. But I say keep it quiet. He wasn't asking if he should lie to her about it. He asked if he should just tell her.
If "something" comes up? Like what? A direct question? Answer it truthfully. If "something" is a question like "What do you feel guilty about?" Don't blurt out that you were fucking somebody else.
Just my two cents. I haven't been in those shoes.