Originally Posted by Neptune

My wife is not as attractive as she once was, and doesn't dress as sexy as she used to, so I probably would not give her a second look as she went by.
But to be fair, I am also not as attractive as I was when we met, and our relationship is based on a lot more than just physical looks. Sex is great, we get along well, share lots in common, and there is an amazing mental attraction between us.

I find her the most attractive woman in the world, when taking the entire package into account yet I probably wouldn't give her that second look if I did not know her.