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From the guy's perspective, In the past couple of months my sex drive has dropped and while she hasn't mentioned it I'm sure my wife has noticed. I've thought about it and for me I think there are several reasons. My work is really stressful now with the possibility of lay offs looming right before the holidays. With the extra stress and a recent illness I've not been working out and have had a few too many beers so my waistline has expanded. Sexy and attractive I feel not. The added weight and lethargy doesn't put any va in my va-voom either! Also, in my case the timing has been off. She has initated during the week when I am tired/stressed AND we have the kid at home. Sometimes when we have to have the "quiet" sex because the daughter is in the next room I'd rather just watch tv. It can be hard to get excited about quiet gentle grunting. When I'm in the mood on the weekends sometimes she's not and before you know it a few weeks have gone by. I'm sure its a temporary thing both in my situation and yours. I do make sure to tell my wife I love her and let her know she's special and you deserve the same. If you're not getting it give him a nudge in the right direction or really sit him down and have an honest talk to him before it does become a real problem.
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