your two threads have been merged into one. there's absolutely no reason to have two active threads on the same subject on the same page of a forum.
i'll link you to king's thread:
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=72117
all of this junior-high back and forth metaphoric nonsense is bullshit. if all you're gonna do is play games or get played in her games, dump the bitch and lose about 90% of the stress in your life. drop the painful, honest truth on her once and for all, and if she dosen't respond postively, wish her a good life. just stop tearing yourself up (and everyone else here by proxy) with these maybe/maybe not games. this is not a request. we don't want to hear anything else about this pathetic situation until you've grown your balls out enough to drop some hard truth on this pain in the ass of peice of ass you're dealing with and garnered some real resolution as a result of that hard truth.