well you have to keep in mind....we are only sharing the same living space because there is no "wierdness" to make us do other wise...and its much cheaper that way...they have their space, we have ours....its basically a "roomie" situation...We had debts to pay off that I didnt want to take into a new marriage and Dave is ina debt counseling program to pay his off...none of us saw the point in moving somewhere else and having to struggle when we could all co-exist and stay with the comfortable lifestyle we had become accustomed too...selfish? yes....but who cares it works for all of us, we arent hurting anyone.
1st hubby was 18 when I married him, I was 22, he's now 33 and Im 36 and the things we want out of a partner started changing in 1999...I still care for him and vice versa...but together we werent the people we wanted to be (just for the record in case anybody is wondering he and I have had no sexual relations or shared a bedroom in over 3 1/2 years)
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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