I have been with the same woman for over 8 years now and I have to say that for a while we had sexual issues where we wouldn't have sex for a month at a time. I'm really young so this doesn't really go over well and we aren't married. However, I understand where the guy is coming from. Whether we want to agree or not sex is a huge part of a relationship and of marriage. A wife like a husband has certain obligations towards the other. She may not want to have sex but she should be looking at her husbands needs. I don't think cheating is morally right or wrong because I happen to have a different view on life then most people. I can emotionally seperate sex and love. I have never cheated, but if I were in his situation I would cheat, even if she had issues beyond me. I believe it is his wife's duty to let him know what's going on with her and she should be open enough to consider letting him have extra-marital affairs if shes not willing to exercise those spousal obligations.
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