Well I have a couple of thoughts being a male and having what I call a "high sex drive". I think it may be many of the things that are listed above, but I also think it may be something else. A good friend of mine has a super hot wife (so that is not a problem) and they do not have sex but once every other week or so (so he tells me). He says he is not as turned on, becasue she is very dominating. She handles the bills, the kids, cooking cleaning and just about every choice to be made in the house hold. I personally think it hampers his ability to feel like "THE MAN". So he has let this happen and it is probably mainly his fault, but it is a problem. I don't know how to correct it except by having open and positive communication about it.
Perhaps she would be more open to giving up some tasks to him if he can step up and get them done.
This may not even be close to your situation, but it was one I did not see mentioned and I know for a fact can be a problem. It actually helped me to not get this way, by hearing him tell me the issues. Thanks for listening and good luck!
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