Originally Posted by alicat

The first quote of yours "(school, for the kids, new job for her)"

The next quote is "And from the beginning, my mate knew that cooking, cleaning, laundry are her responsibilities period and she loves it, because I make her do it..."

WTF? I am not an overt feminist, but come on, you are just asking for it with comments like these. I read a few threads tonight that I didn't comment on because of time constraints, but, I can't not post a response to your post.

So, in addition to your wife working she is also a subservient slave that enjoys , oh sorry "loves" , working herself to the bone because you "make her do it"?! Unless you're in an adult S&M type relationship (which I don't sense from your post) then you are just an a**wipe that needs to get a clue about healthy adult relationships and what they entail. After a long days work, would you enjoy coming home, putting on a grin and proceeding to continue to work the rest of the day/evening at home because your mate "made you do it"?

I thought most of what you were writing sounded normal and I was agreeing with it (even the "new job for her" part) until you got to the "she loves it, because I make her do it." part. That is just straying from the original post that started this thread and even the first 2/3 or so of your own post. Grow up and realize your wife isin't just a housekeeper and baby-making-machine, she's also a fellow human being and not your inferior.

/walks away shaking head in utter disbelief and disgust

Ali