When someone has has betrayed your trust, it's very hard to get it back. I know exactly where you are right now.
What I can tell you, is that the first woman's decision to cheat was entirely her choice and her decision, and there was nothing you could have done to stop it, therefore you weren't responsible. Don't blame yourself.
The currentl young lady, likes and appreciates you, for you, because you are a nice guy, not to mention adorable. Don't assume that she's going to do the same thing, she's a different person, you're a different person now. Have some faith in her that she likes you for you.
Don't think about what might happen, because you don't know. There's something called self-fulfilling prophecy, that if you think something will happen, it will. If you think that your current young lady loves you and will be faithful to you, then she will.
You are good enough, and people do like you...
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Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.
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