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Has anyone ever heard of an "open marriage" really working? My wife and I have a very robust sex life. But I have a friend in the same boat as danbiles and I always ask myself what if that was me?
Could I say to my wife, hey, I want to go out and sow the oats since you're not interested in that area? Even if she said "fine", the implications are huge. That would obviously mean that she could do the same, can you have sex without developing feelings for someone? I know I can't. So open wouldn't work for me.
The biggest thing about cheating is telling all those lies. Or getting lied to. I have told the missus, "if you get to the point where you need to move on from my bed, just be straight with me, spare me the lies and humiliation, and we'll find a solution the best we can" An open arrangement might solve that for some people (again, not me). But it sounds too late for ol' danbiles, eh?
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"My theory on life: Run screaming into the void" - Unknown, I only wish I would have said that first. And no, that's not my picture. Do you know whose it is???
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