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Originally Posted by Aladdin Sane
I've read that men who are getting sex on the side actually may increase their sexual activities at home-- it's an attempt to cover their tracks. I don't think your man is cheating. My vote is for he is stressed and/or he's having erectile dysfunction. It's time to have a talk with him.
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I'd say it's more likely that the increase in those cases is due to being arroused by memories of the other partner, not trying to cover tracks... A guy can't exactly do it when he doesn't have a desire to do it.
I do think it's common from both sexes to go through a change in sexual activity if cheating is a factor. If sex were good, it might slump. If sex were bad, it might inexplicably get better... Change in sexuality can be a bad sign. Did it suddenly change or has it been more gradual?
I'd be tempted to back off for awhile. He might just be very stressed and busy, and it may not be high on his priorities. Chances are though, that if he notices that you've stopped desiring it as much he'll try to make you desire it. He's got to get sex from someone, it's only a matter of time before he spontaneously combusts! On the down side, too much attention to the issue will probably not help much.