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... i guess its allowed to make your opinion clear ....
if u think its bullshit thats going on ....
if they are grown up, they will respect your words ...
i can understand "B" in a way .... manipulationg is a strong word for that.
tell him that it is simply respectless talking about his "intimous" life, in order to let this "hear" his ex .... but its weather crime nor sin ... simply ridiculess ....
C shoudnt freak out at all ... she is the one who let herself being manipulated ...
is that the reason she is not able to cope with the situation ?
let her know also ... be honest ....
lets say they all have to accept the situation ... a, b and c ....
tell them all ...
it not your problem in that way ... you are not the person who decided to do all that .....
but let them know that you have a problem with how things develop ..... be honest on that.
you give them a chance to reflect their own behaviour on what you - honestly - think about all that ...
yeah ... and stay in contact .... call them ... beneath friends, if so, its shit thinking about who is calling on whom ... its a way of showing interest in a person calling him/her ... so ... go on ...
grtz
citrid
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