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Old 10-09-2004, 07:08 PM   #11 (permalink)
StickODynomite
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Keep the communication open -- but try to do it without blaming - -don't say YOU dont do this referring to him-- keep it about how you feel...
Well said maleficent!

Another tip: Dont use absolute language. No words like 'never' 'always'... and like maleficent said.. dont say "YOU" .. everything you say should be in reference to your feelings...


I also recommend getting away and going somewhere very private if you can. A place where you can walk & talk (this really helps me)... a place that relaxes you.
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