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swedey · 10-09-2004, 01:37 PM

Seems to me like a lot of you managed to do what I couldn't quite: have sex with a girl during your teens.
I waited without really intending to until I was 22 and was almost forced into it by a rather aggressive, recently divorced high school teacher from a long way away. She was 4 years older.
Now, I imagine most people reading here will skip over most of the content of the thread since it is rather samey..... but how about a new question?
I was reading the other day a theory linking Freud's Oedipus Complex with the supposedly 'common' experience of males losing their virginity or having a first major sexual attachment to an older woman.
How common is this 'older woman' thing? I could look back over all the posts so far and count, but I don't think that would give me the answer.
If it's common and normal for guys to get involved with older girls/women, why is that? And what brings them back to younger girls afterwards?
And is it any different from what girls tend to do by going for older guys?

Too many questions?

10-09-2004, 01:37 PM	#365 (permalink)
swedey Upright	Seems to me like a lot of you managed to do what I couldn't quite: have sex with a girl during your teens. I waited without really intending to until I was 22 and was almost forced into it by a rather aggressive, recently divorced high school teacher from a long way away. She was 4 years older. Now, I imagine most people reading here will skip over most of the content of the thread since it is rather samey..... but how about a new question? I was reading the other day a theory linking Freud's Oedipus Complex with the supposedly 'common' experience of males losing their virginity or having a first major sexual attachment to an older woman. How common is this 'older woman' thing? I could look back over all the posts so far and count, but I don't think that would give me the answer. If it's common and normal for guys to get involved with older girls/women, why is that? And what brings them back to younger girls afterwards? And is it any different from what girls tend to do by going for older guys? Too many questions?