As a kid that gew up in a divorced marriage I can completely agree that it is possible to have a great upbringing without both parents being there all the time. I would prefer being with my mother and father alone at different time while they're HAPPY as apposed to them both being around but being miserable with each other. When you're a child and your mommy and daddy are fighting, you feel like you're doing something wrong or that you should be doing something to stop all of the bullshit. Kids are not stupid - they can tell when things are tense... you can try and hide it, but the sense of tension alone is enough to make growing up alot harder than it should be.
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