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Originally Posted by Lockjaw
It's an excuse nothing more. LOGICALLY speaking he should have brought up the issue.
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What if he has, to no avail?
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LOGICALLY they should have seeked outside mediation.
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What if they tried this already and it failed?[/QUOTE]
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Originally Posted by Lockjaw
LOGICALLY if none of the above worked they should have divorced.
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What if they have kids and don't want to break up the family?
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Originally Posted by Lockjaw
Now as far as unwanted celibacy bordering on neglect...again I bring up the hypothetical of what if his wife started stepping out on him because she felt he was "emotionally distant" and unable or unwilling to fulfill her needs as a woman? I have a feeling if he came in here posted that as a reason and said his wife was cheating on him you likely wouldn't be so ready to accept that as being logical enough to warrant her nefarious behavior.
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I wouldn't blame her in the least. Why would her needs be any less important than his? I'm talking about basic human needs. If they aren't met within the marriage, then logically, they will be met outside the marriage.
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Originally Posted by SirSeymour
It is a proven fact that the #1 reason men cheat is that they are not getting taken care of at home. Period.
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I wouldn't limit this to only men.