CityOfAngels

I think we scared danbiles away.
Anyways, I think we can all agree on one thing: Communication is your goal, and one of the most important things to implement into your marriage.
That means even if you're going to cheat, make sure she knows about it. That way SHE can make the choice to be with a cheater or not, NOT you. If you're tempted to cheat, make sure she knows about it. Maybe she'll take it as a wake-up call and it might open up the lines of communication between you two even more, letting her tell you WHY she hasn't desired sex in a year.

Whatever you do: Do NOT lie to her. Do NOT keep secrets from her. If you want to get nookie on the side, you might as well divorce her and become single again. Quit playing her for a fool.

And to those who say it's HER fault that he's cheating: * <-- Pretend that star is me flipping you off. I'm serious; how can SHE be to blame for HIS actions that she doesn't even know he's doing? If she knew about it and stayed with him anyways, then MAYBE that argument could develop some credibility. But until then, and I say this with all my heart and soul, quit talking out of your ass.

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