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Originally Posted by powerclown
I'm not so sure its no excuse. Its a pretty damn logical excuse if you ask me. Unwanted celibacy within the confines of a marriage is a cruel arrangement bordering on abusive neglect. I agree completely on the importance of communication at all points in a relationship.
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It's not logical. It's an excuse nothing more. LOGICALLY speaking he should have brought up the issue. LOGICALLY they should have seeked outside mediation. LOGICALLY if none of the above worked they should have divorced.
Screwing around on your partner is not logical.
Now as far as unwanted celibacy bordering on neglect...again I bring up the hypothetical of what if his wife started stepping out on him because she felt he was "emotionally distant" and unable or unwilling to fulfill her needs as a woman? I have a feeling if he came in here posted that as a reason and said his wife was cheating on him you likely wouldn't be so ready to accept that as being logical enough to warrant her nefarious behavior.