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While I agree that sexual relations are a major part of any healthy relationship, not getting any doesn't give you the excuse to cheat or have an affair, PERIOD. Doing so is a violation of the vows you gave to each other before God (or whatever diety you worship... or before the world, I suppose, if you're athiest.)
Abusive neglect? You've got to be kidding me. That's an excuse to do things behind your wife's back, like fucking another woman? And people wonder why the world is going down the tubes... The answer's pretty obvious to me. It's a complete lack of moral obligations by some parties. You don't go behind your partner's back and do things... you talk about the things and resolve to fix them however possible. You don't blame the other party for "abusive neglect" just because you're not getting a nut every now and then... and you don't use it as an excuse if you get caught.
Instead of spending time with another woman, why don't you try spending time with the one you committed your life to, and try to find out what is going on that makes her not want to have sex? If it's fixable, which it will be in 99% of situations, then you help fix it however you can. If not, you can then start looking into separation/divorce or an open marriage. Cheating, however, is the lazy and easy way out, and is not the thing a real man would do to a woman to which he's committed himself.
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