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Originally Posted by tooth
Seriously, for a change, spend the time to get her off WITHOUT penetration. That means hands, mouth, whatever. Learn what it takes to get her loose and wet. Or, if she masturbates, have her do that for you. She may not be comfotable with that, but its worth a shot. Nobody knows how to turn her on like she does  |
i agree wholeheartedly. you might not be able to get her to open up (pun half-intended) until you can really interact with her. initially, i say talk more and only make it about sex when you're both ready. if you've already gotten there, try to make her go crazy by using something other than penetration. touch her, use your tongue, if you're feeling brave then tease her (the reason i say this is some girls can get mighty pissed when you just stop) or don't touch her at all: breathe on her, in her ear, "downstairs," all the good stuff. any combination of the above is good too (i like to lick my girlfriend and blow on the saliva while its still wet, makes for a "cool" sensation) but moreover, make sure she's ready in every sense of the word: emotionally, physically, otherwise...
have fun and don't just have sex, make love.