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Originally Posted by Averett
Woah wait... Where exactly in the wedding vows does it say that she needs to put out?
Oh, Lockjaw already said this. High five, Lockjaw  |
I knew this was comin' the second I hit "submit reply"
Seriously though, isn't sex part of love? I'm not advocating that anyone should put out "on demand", however a little courtesy call every few months shouldn't be to much to ask from one's SO. I do agree this is a sign of much deeper problems, probably deeper than will ever be solved here. If someone loves someone then "putting out" shouldn't be to much to ask even if it has become the chore from hell haha. Are you advocating that someone should go for years without sex even though their partner has lost interest? I know your answer to this will be he should have discussed this with her before he went out and screwed around, and I agree. By the same token she should have discussed her problems with him. How long does she think he will go without before some serious slip? He also should be worried about her obvious dislike of sex with him. This is why I feel they should both shoulder the blame, obviously a lack of communication both ways.
Somehow I feel I'm getting much further into this than I really wanted ......
kinda like diggin' yer own grave ......