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ultra_agent9 · 10-08-2004, 11:16 AM

I'm wondering what the wife is thinking. I mean, after a year of no sex she must be wondering how he is coping and getting off. If you're married then you should know your SO pretty well, especially their sexual habits and needs. She either suspects that he is getting take-out, or she is also dining out and doesn't care. Need more info about that...

Yeah, sleeping with co-workers is a very dangerous game. I would definitely put the brakes on that immediately.

It sounds like you have lost interest in having sex with your wife. Ok, she doesn't give it up but if you wanted it you wouldn't have strayed, you would be romancing her trying to put her in the mood again, to re-ignite the flame. The passion has died, and that's why you're "eating out" because it's new and exciting. That's what I think.

10-08-2004, 11:16 AM	#28 (permalink)
ultra_agent9 Crazy Location: Tokyo Japan	I'm wondering what the wife is thinking. I mean, after a year of no sex she must be wondering how he is coping and getting off. If you're married then you should know your SO pretty well, especially their sexual habits and needs. She either suspects that he is getting take-out, or she is also dining out and doesn't care. Need more info about that... Yeah, sleeping with co-workers is a very dangerous game. I would definitely put the brakes on that immediately. It sounds like you have lost interest in having sex with your wife. Ok, she doesn't give it up but if you wanted it you wouldn't have strayed, you would be romancing her trying to put her in the mood again, to re-ignite the flame. The passion has died, and that's why you're "eating out" because it's new and exciting. That's what I think. __________________ Champaigne for my real friends, real pain for my sham friends. Last edited by ultra_agent9; 10-08-2004 at 11:19 AM..