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Originally Posted by Lockjaw
And Redgirl I kind of don't think that would really fix or make the situation better if he just told her he's planning on getting some on the side if she doesn't start putting out. While she might not be interested in him like that(can't imagine her just losing interest without any sort of reason) but that shouldn't give him carte blanche to violate his marriage vows. If he talks to her and she doesn't come around they need to get a divorce. The outside sex is only going to cause resentment amongst somebody.
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I'm just saying there are unconventional relationships out there and not everyone has to stick with the one-on-one thing if it isn't working. But she would have to agree to it, he shouldn't be sneaking around and doing it- I'm not advocating that at all. I just think if they truly have no other issues, she just isn't interested in sex with him anymore, then she might be willing to open their relationship for him because he obviously can't go on with no sex anymore.