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Its horrid but it's not uncommon.
And Redgirl I kind of don't think that would really fix or make the situation better if he just told her he's planning on getting some on the side if she doesn't start putting out. While she might not be interested in him like that(can't imagine her just losing interest without any sort of reason) but that shouldn't give him carte blanche to violate his marriage vows. If he talks to her and she doesn't come around they need to get a divorce. The outside sex is only going to cause resentment amongst somebody. If she doesn't resent him for actually going out and having sex with another woman I wouldn't doubt that eventually his mistress starting to feel resentment about doing all the wifely duties so to speak but not getting any of the benefits.
I've seen it happen too many times. Guy gets a girl on the side because his woman isn't satisfying his "needs", girl on the side claims she is ok with just sex, thing go fine for 6 months to a year, girl on the side gets tired of being the girl on the side and wants something more. Girl on the side start presuring the guy to break it off with his main woman. He doesn't and things get nasty from there. And that was just with the dating couples I know. I won't even get into the married couple that I know that had something like this happen and how nasty that got.
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