Hmmm... maybe she's been cheating on him? No sex in a year? That's a red flag for all sorts of things! You better talk to her ASAP! You know the old song... who's making love to your old lady, while you were out making love?
If you have talked to her and she still hasn't tried to fix things between you, then you just need to be up front with her that you're getting sex on the side. She really shouldn't have a problem with it if she's not interested in you like that anyway. I don't think that's much of a marriage but if you guys can separate it out like that, then go for it. Whatever works for you.
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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