I may get some shit for this, but after a year, I say sow your oats where you can. However, I would have told her about how I was feeling, that is, I'm looking at, and I'm interested in other women. I would have allowed her to attempt to rescue your sex life. If she balked, I would have been brazen enough to ask for gas money to get over to the other woman's house! She may deserve this stepping out, but she doesn't deserve being lied to.
I don't know the full story, so take that with a grain o' salt!
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The sad thing is... as you get older you come to realize that you don't so much pilot your life, as you just try to hold on, in a screaming, defiant ball of white-knuckle anxious fury
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