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Originally Posted by danbiles
...I do love her...I've started having an affair with a coworker...
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Does not compute.
I don't mean to judge you but, "in sickness and in health," man. Now not only have you cheated on her, but if you love her, you have to tell her about it. How do you think THAT will affect your sex life with her? I know life is hard, and a marriage isn't all cut'n'paste and tracing the lines. But you accepted the challenge of the marriage when you said, "I do." That means it is your responsibility, obligation even, to be upfront and honest with your wife at all times.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but you have to know that you have wronged your wife. If you love her, you know what to do. If not, at least divorce the poor woman so she's not living a lie.
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Originally Posted by Zeraph
...the best way to keep a big secret would be to make it public with disinformation...
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